Friday, April 2, 2010

The National Review has posted a very powerful article, Getting Serious About Pornography, showing the terrible threat it is to our marriages and our children. It is, in fact, the drug that destroys marriage,

The author begins the article by correlating pornography use with drug use,

"Imagine a drug so powerful it can destroy a family simply by distorting a man’s perception of his wife. Picture an addiction so lethal it has the potential to render an entire generation incapable of forming lasting marriages and so widespread that it produces more annual revenue — $97 billion worldwide in 2006 — than all of the leading technology companies combined. Consider a narcotic so insidious that it evades serious scientific study and legislative action for decades, thriving instead under the ever-expanding banner of the First Amendment."

The article goes on to say that the stages of drug addiction are very similar to addiction to pornography,

"According to Dr. Victor Cline, a nationally renowned clinical psychologist who specializes in sexual addiction, pornography addiction is a process that undergoes four phases. First, addiction, resulting from early and repeated exposure accompanied by masturbation. Second, escalation, during which the addict requires more frequent porn exposure to achieve the same “highs” and may learn to prefer porn to sexual intercourse. Third, desensitization, during which the addict views as normal what was once considered repulsive or immoral. And finally, the acting-out phase, during which the addict runs an increased risk of making the leap from screen to real life."

The author points out an amazing contradiction. The use of pornography, instead of increasing sexual activity in marriage, it actually destroys it for the majority,

"In a study published in Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity, Schneider found that among the 68 percent of couples in which one person was addicted to Internet porn, one or both had lost interest in sex."

Not surprisingly there is an economic impact,

"The fact is that the moral and financial needs of couples struggling with this form of addiction will remain unaddressed in a country that views pornography use as a constitutional right."

1 comments:

Beth said...

Why is it that the church in general does not talk about this issue? It does seem the problem is bigger than it appears. An unspoken plague of our century. The Lord must have answers for this...

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